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The Double Burden of Career & Housework

We all know there are no days off in parenting—and research shows just how hard moms are working. A study released by Welch’s looked at 2,000 American moms of kids between five and 12 years old, and found the average hours moms work per week is 98. As in the equivalent of two-and-a-half full-time jobs.

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(a) Holding a full-time job is demanding, hard-work.

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(b) Caring for house, hubby, and heirs is demanding, hard work and a full-time job.

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Studies show:
Men do (a) and contribute little to (b). Women do (a) and the majority of (b).

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Men have been privileged to focus on (a) because they can rely on some woman to step-in and do (b) for them.

Women still have to do both and cannot rely on anyone to step-in and do (b) for them.

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Cultural Advantage: Men.
Cultural Handicap: Women.

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Men have no more right to crow to women about their “success” in the business world, and how that success is derived from their superior “attachment” to their work, than a fighter who has beaten an opponent with his hands tied behind his back.

A double burden (AKA double day, second shift, or double duty) is the workload many women face while working to earn money while also carrying the burden of an outsized share of responsibility for domestic labor.

Learn more about the Double Burden that modern women face.

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The New Labor Laws

Just a Wife and Mother.

For millennia, by our blood, our work, our suffering, women have birthed the world. Our names are forgotten.



We laid down our lives, and our futures, to serve our country, our people. Our contributions are denigrated and dismissed.



We are the unknown and unappreciated soldiers. She was just a wife and mother.
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The New Labor Laws

When Every Mother Is a Hero

Women will have equality when every mother is a hero.

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When every mother is entitled to pay, a pension and veteran’s benefits. When there are statues honouring The Unknown Mother.

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When the life of those who died giving life is as precious as the life of those who died giving death.
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Combining Family & Career

Great Women on Motherhood

At work, you think of the children you have left at home. At home, you think of the work you’ve left unfinished. Such a struggle is unleashed within yourself. Your heart is rent.
Golda Meir

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When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.
Sophia Loren

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Take motherhood … the pay is lousy and the career ladder nonexistent.
Barbara Ehrenreich

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By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh

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We have a secret in our [doula] culture, and it’s not that birth is painful. It’s that women are strong.
Laura Stavoe Harm

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Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.
Barbara Kingsolver
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MOTHERS AS JEDI: May the 4th Be with You

Women’s rights in essence is really a movement for freedom, a movement for equality, for the dignity of all women, for those who work outside the home and those who dedicate themselves with more altruism than any profession I know to being wives and mothers, cooks and chauffeurs, and child psychologists and loving human beings.
– Jill Ruckelshaus

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There is an unspoken pact that women are supposed to follow. I am supposed to act like I constantly feel guilty about being away from my kids. (I don’t. I love my job.) Mothers who stay at home are supposed to pretend they are bored and wish they were doing more corporate things. (They don’t. They love their job.)
Amy Poehler

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To nourish children and raise them against odds is any time, any place, more valuable than to fix bolts in cars or design nuclear weapons.”
Marilyn French

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You go through big chunks of time where you’re just thinking, ‘This is impossible — oh, this is impossible.’ And then you just keep going and keep going, and you sort of do the impossible.
Tina Fey (on being a working Mother)

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Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.
Elizabeth Stone

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There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.
Jill Churchill